Friday, April 4, 2014

A TEENAGE MEMORY OF DOLLY KILGORE GORDON SHERER by Ron McKeever

In searching for some details on Mama Dolly, I discovered that the house place where the McKeever homestead is located, was built for Dolly and Johnny Gordon in the late twenties.  Johnny Gordon was Dolly's first husband.  He was killed in a log truck accident in 1929.  With two small children (Jackie and James Gordon), Dolly was not able to keep the small farm in operation.  She later married A. Jack Sherer from Jasper and moved her two in with his six (I believe) and we saw them for decorations and reunions at the Kilgore homestead.  

My contact became serious when we moved back to Alabama from West Virginia in 1951 and discovered Alan Dale Sherer.  He was a couple of years younger than Glen and I, but we hit it off like good cousins do.  

For three years, until I left home to earn my fortune, we would spend a week with Alan Dale.  Dolly and Jack gave us strict orders to cut the grass and stay out of Caine Creek.  As soon as they left for their jobs...Dolly managed the Fair Store in Jasper and Jack was a carpenter....we headed to Caine Creek to fish and would get back home in time to do our chores.  

During our visit, Jack would give each of us three, a quarter for the church offering.   We would get it changed and put in a dime and keep fifteen cents for a trip to Brakefield Dairy.  The dairy was located about a mile from Alan's house and we could buy a quart of chocolate milk for ten cents.  We drank up the balance of our church offering in chocolate milk, and only God knew what we were doing.  

At night, the three of us slept together and would laugh and snicker under the covers until Jack hollered, "BOYS!"  It sounded like God, so we sorta kept it under control.  Dolly had the Kilgore instinct for hard work and I remember she was a wonderful cook, as all the Kilgore girls were.

Whenever we went to Jasper...which was rare...the first place we headed to was the Fair Store.  If the store didn't have what Mom was looking for, then the search began.  

I recall vividly in 1954 when our house burned and all kids in school, everything was lost.  Alan cleaned out his closet so  Glen and I would have clothes to wear to school.  The only thing Alan didn't do for us was introduce us to girls.  I don't think he knew any.  

The railroad track was a couple of blocks from Sherer house.  When we visited Alan Dale I remember our scrounging up shotgun shells and placing them on the track to hear the train run over them.  Looking back, I might have done a better job with my life if Alan hadn't influenced me the wrong way.

Seriously, I am fortunate to have been allowed by God to be born into the lineage of Kilgores and McKeevers.  I had the honor of presiding over the service when Mama Dolly was laid to rest in New Prospect Cemetery in 1993.

Friday, March 28, 2014

UNDER THE TREE CANOPY--2014 KILGORE COUSINS' REUNION

Sight of our 2014 Kilgore Cousins Reunion, May 24, 2014

Fallen oak tree in 2009
As I was driving by my neighbor’s home here in Parkway Estates this morning (March 28, 2014 in the Birmingham, AL metro area),  I noticed in my neighbor’s backyard, a very large tree somewhat uprooted,  leaning for support against another tree.  That scene reminded me  of a time a few years back (I think in 2009)  when a huge oak tree fell down on the roof of Granny Kilgore’s  house.   The largest portion of the top of that “ over-a-hundred-year-old oak” was supported by the roof line of the house, while the lower portion lay sprawling out on the ground. The branches on top of the house were as large in circumference as most tree bases you see in the woods. 

 It wasn’t a happy scene to behold.  The tree provided an enormous amount of shade in the summer time.  It was stately in its appearance.  It added a special feel and  beauty to the property. All that was lost with the tree falling. The reason for the fallen tree was very evident when looking at the remainder of the trunk that remained standing in the ground.
Top of the oak covered the back of the house
 


It wasn’t a well tree. The tree trunk was hollow inside.  Also, there was a large carpenter ants’ nest  at the base of the tree resulting in an additional weakened state.  The ants had an ideal home,  unobserved, and eating away at the tree. When a strong wind came through, the oak broke off about 8 feet up from the base landing on back portion of Granny’s house.

The situation was traumatic at the time, not just because of house damage and  the tree’s demise, but because my father and I were at odds concerning what to do about it. Daddy wanted to know what I thought because he had set it up for me to own the house and its immediate property.  I knew the house meant a lot to all us cousins in the family and its loss would have been a sad time for the Kilgore family.  

Daddy’s initial response was to burn the tree down, and the house with it.  He saw that I wasn’t in favor of such a drastic response because of my love for the old place.  Daddy was very gracious.  He found someone to get the tree off the house for use as firewood.  It must have been a lot of firewood, too.  Then he found someone to repair the damage caused by the tree which was mainly repairing a section of the tin roof.  It could have been worse.  We were fortunate because the rafters supporting the tin were not affected. Daddy forked out the money needed for the tree removal and house repairs all by himself, and he did it willingly.  He never brought up to me again. Thankfully, the old farm house had been spared.


Remaining truck of the fallen oak tree (present day) 

the decaying trunk base of the fallen oak tree

Looking inside the top of the  decaying trunk base of the old oak
   
All that is history now. There are two remaining huge oak trees still standing beyond the fallen tree toward the old barn.  Those trees are still providing shade, and will  be the canopy for the Kilgore Cousins Reunion to be held on Saturday, May 24, 2014. One of those sprawling trees was hit by lightening last year, but it seems to be doing okay.  

The old house is looking older and older by the day.  It is amazing that we still have the structure with us.  I plan to open up the house for the reunion.  It has been sometime now since the house has been opened for the relatives to work through.  There is very little inside the house, but it still holds the memories of the lives that lived within those wall.  

I do hope that all our extended relatives will taken advantage of this opportunity to return to the place of our roots under the canopy of the old oak trees.  Very few people can do this these days, and we can!  See you there!

Johnny Kilgore
Kilgore Cousins Reunion Coordinator

Thursday, March 13, 2014

A TEENAGER'S MEMORY OF LOU ETTA (SIS) KILGORE ROMANS by Ronald J McKeever


Lou Etta Kilgore Romans was one fine lady.  All the grandkids knew her as Sis.  I first remembered her when as children, we would go to the Kilgore farm, and she took over to see that we toed the line.  Sis was married a short time, but the marriage was annulled.  I never knew why.  She came back home and was like a second-mama since she had no children of her own.

Somewhere along the way, a little romance was lit with the preacher at Oak Grove church.  His name was N. L. Warren.  When it came time for him to eat with the Kilgore's, Sis had us scrubbing the yard.  We swept it with a brush broom.  Then, to finish it off, we had to use a store-bought broom.  I vaguely remember Preacher Warren and Sis sitting in the courting room as we would peek in to see what, if anything, was happening.  I was told that Preacher Warren felt that he could not marry Sis because the previous marriage might be held against his ministry. 

About the time we moved to West Virginia, Sis married the widower, Silas Jerdy Romans, who lived on the farm at the Walker County line.  When we moved back to the farm in 1951, they furnished us milk and eggs. If you were the "unlucky" one who had to go and get the milk and eggs, Sis would have you sweeping the yard.  We would sweep until she went into the house, or got busy doing something else.  This freed us to get our goods and hightailed it home.  

No one in Walker or Winston County could make Sis' chewing gum talk as loud as she could.  She always had gum, and occasionally would share it....if you swept the yards.  After Jerdy got too old to farm they moved into the Tri-Cities area, where some of his children lived.  

Jerdy is buried at Old Bethel Cemetery at Nauvoo and Sis awaits the resurrection at Lamon's Chapel, near Grandpa, Grandma and her brother, Johnie.  I was privileged to officiate at her funeral.  A very fine lady,loved by all.

Thursday, February 27, 2014

KILGORE...WHAT'S IN A NAME?

by Johnny Kilgore

What’s in a name?  That is a question which has been asked down through the years.  Certainly, a name represents more than the utterance of it.  Mental imagines of real things or people and intrinsic emotions and thoughts arise when uttering a name, or come to mind when hearing  a name uttered.   We bear the name Kilgore.  What comes to mind?

As a young child, I did not care for my name.  I did not know anyone else who carried our name.  In my mind, I thought the name made me an outsider.  Of course, my relatives had to carry that same stigma.  My world view was limited, and I felt that my name made us different, a less than desirable trait for a young child.  Even the sound of our name was repulsive to me.  The first syllable, “kill” evoked the image of murder and someone dying.  I was  a sensitive, peace loving kid, and was not comfortable with the thought of killing.  And then there was the second syllable— “gore.”  That too evoked a negative image--much like a big bull goring a human being.  The name, “Kilgore” was heavy and hard sounding.  During the last 50’s and 60’s in Junior high and Senior high school, all the boys in my grade called each other only by last names. Although I didn’t like that practice, I became acclimated to being called Kilgore. I always preferred to be called by my first name.

In “googling” my last name on the internet, I found some information that some others have researched in regards to the ancestry of the name, Kilgore.  I found out there are are variations of my name.  Those variations are  Kilgour, Kilgoure, Kilgor, Kilgo, Killgowr, Killgour, Killgoure, Killgoar, Killgore and Kilgore.  The spelling of our name is the most commonly used in America today.  

The internet source, www.jkilgo.com (written by Darrell Brock) states the following about our name: 
The name seems to be Gaelic in origin, probably from the ancient name of a parish in Fife Shire Scotland.  Kilgour means “wooded hill”.  From the Celtic word for hill we get kill and from the Gaelic prefix kil which meaning often denoted a church, we get the idea that kil could mean a “church hill”.  Another explanation is a hill of goats, kil meaning hill and gour meaning goat.  Whatever the origin of the name we know that it came from the Gaelic language which is a branch of the Indo-European family of languages.  The Gauls carried it with them on their conquest to Ireland from Europe and and later the Irish carried it to Scotland about the year 500 A.D.

The same web site also disclosed the following history:

The name Kilgour is found all over Fife and Aberdeen Scotland. The oldest Kilgour on record seems to be Sir Thomas Kilgour who was chaplain of St. Thomas Church in Falkland Palace of Fife Scotland. This palace was a favorite hang out of Scottish royalty. James the V, Mary Queen of Scots, Charles the I and Charles the II all paid visits to the palace.

I link you now to additional historical information concerning our ancestry and another tradition concerning our name. Just click on the link below.



Since coming of age (meaning I know better now), I consider my name wonderfully special.  First, it is the name of loved ones I hold so dear — specially, John Wesley Kilgore and Sarah Noles Kilgore-- My father, Cecil W. Kilgore and mother, Beatrice Manasco Kilgore.  It is the name that both my son, Dr. John McCoy Kilgore and my daughter, Lee Elizabeth Kilgore, bear. It is the name of cousins and uncles, nephews and nieces.  It is the name of origin of my aunts whose families bear different last names through marriage—McKleroy, McKeever, Chadwick, Sherer, Gordon, Spain, and Romans.  Kilgore is the name that my dear wife, legally acquired and accepted when we married in January 1967.    

Second, the name is not as obscure as I believed as a child.  There is Kilgore College and the Kilgore Rangerettes.  There are three place in the U.S. that bear the name: Kilgore, Texas,  Kilgore, Nebraska, and Kilgore, Idaho.  There are politicians from the state of Virginia who are Kilgores.  There is the entertainer, Merle Kilgore.  Sometime while watching  T.V. shows (old Perry Mason shows and Sgt. Preston of the Yukon), I’ve heard our name used in the story line. It is a name not common like "Jones" or "Smith" which is an added plus in my eyes. 

But we need no justification to be proud of our name and our heritage.  We are a hardy, keen-minded and energetic family.  Our family displays both creativity, beauty,  and intellectual ability with the strongest work ethnic.  At the same time we are a  loving family who remembers our roots.  We are a patriotic group and most of all— a God-fearing one.   Need I say more.  I think not!  There is much is a name, and we have much to be grateful. It’s great to be a KILGORE!


Tuesday, February 18, 2014

A SPECIAL VISIT TO AUNT DOLLY'S by Johnny Kilgore

Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Center Point, Alabama


Recently I went through my mother’s old photo album and scanned many pictures that chronicled my growing up years—1940-s and 50’s.  Among those snapshots were a series of pictures taken during a special visit to my Aunt Dolly’s house. 
Dolly Edna Kilgore was  born in February 1909 to Virge and Sarah Kilgore of Nauvoo,  Alabama.  She was twelve years old when my father and her baby brother, Cecil Kilgore, was born (1921).  Aunt Dolly had two older siblings at the time of her birth (1909)—an older brother, Grady Kilgore, and an older sister, Lou Etta Kilgore.
Aunt Dolly was a terrific person who loved both family and church with great conviction.  She was a lady with the gift of hospitality—terrific cook. She also loved music and played the piano.  Long before I was born (1944), she had a tragic life with the death of her first husband, Johnny Gordon (May 18,1929), and the raising of two children on her own—Jacqueline and James Gordon.  These two cousins (born in the 20’s) were more like an aunt and an uncle to me because they were so much older than I was. 

At some time in the l930s,  a wonderful man by the name of Jack Sherer came into Dolly’s life, and they were married in August 1936.   In  September 1937, they had one child, Alan Dale Sherer, born to them.  Jack was the only uncle  that I knew as Aunt Dolly’s husband.  It was always a time I looked forward to when the Cecil Kilgore family visited Dolly and Jack.    

I don’t know what the occasion was, but I can recall having these pictures taken next to the Sherer house located on the Saragossa Road off of Alabama Highway 5.  It was a beautiful, sunny day in the summer.  Granny Kilgore was there, as was  Jack Sherer’s mother, Mrs. Armenda Sherer.  My Aunt Lorene and her children were also visiting.  Sara Ann McKleroy  was a baby.  Therefore, based on the date Sara Ann was born (June 1950), the gathering occurred sometime in 1951.  We were still driving our 1936 Ford at that time.  That car can be  seen in the background of one of the pictures. 

I know you will enjoy scanning through the photographs.  Any additional information from relatives will be greatly appreciated as we walk down memory lane.  

Jack and Dolly Sherer
at the home in 1952
Jack Sherer's mother, Mrs. Armenda Sherer
and Dolly Sherer's mother,
Mrs. Sarah Kilgore



Cecil Kilgore Family visiting Aunt Dolly in 1952

Photo of Beatrice Kilgore on left
with daughter, Rebecca in front, Dolly Sherer in
center, and Lorene McKleroy on the right holding
daughter, Sara Ann in her arms,
In the background is Mary Beth McKleroy.
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All the children visiting Aunt Dolly (1952)
From left to right, baby, Sara Ann McKleroy, held by
big sister, Mary Beth.  Johnny Kilgore is
next to Mary Beth, and next to him is Sandra Faye McKleroy,
In front of Sandra Faye, is Rebecca Ann Kilgore, and on the
far right is Mike Kilgore.



  

Saturday, January 25, 2014

PICKING UP ROADSIDE RUBBISH IN THE JANUARY COLD

This past week has continued to have the bitter cold of this January in Alabama.  In fact, the entire month has had  below normal cold, as night temperatures have dipped into single digits in some locations.  In contrast, the sun and the bright blue sky have been extremely brilliant during these frigid conditions, resulting in sunny, clear days.  The wind from the north has truly made the temperatures feel unbearably, cold — colder than the actual readings. On such a day, Thursday, January 23, 2014, I choose to be outside.  I was appropriately dressed for the weather—layered clothing, gloves, and a skull cap which we used to call a toboggan. I was exposed to the outdoor weather conditions from 12:30 pm until 5:30 pm.  That is why I’m writing this article to tell you about my leisurely, but surprising, day.    

My wife, Pat, and I were visiting my mother in Winston County, Alabama.  One of my objectives during the visit was to pick up trash off both sides of Winston County Road 21 (Poplar Springs Road) from my mother’s driveway entrance,  past all the Kilgore old home place land,  past the state of Alabama land, and stopping at the Winston/Walker County line.  

While visiting Mother these past few months, it was obvious that the road litter was becoming worse by the day.   The country road has become a major thoroughfare of sorts, connecting Alabama Highway 195 to Alabama Highway 5, used by various travelers in the area.  It has also become a commercial route for trucking interests. With all the coal strip mining in the area, the paved highway has become progressively dangerous.  The heavy traffic has resulted in a severely  damaged road surface, with very poor and unsafe shoulders.  It is difficult to safely meet oncoming traffic because the road is too narrow for huge eighteen wheelers when meeting oncoming traffic.  The ubiquitous pot holes  are a result of the abuse.  In fact, on this day, a special truck filled with asphalt was creeping along County. Road 21, filling the numerous potholes.  Another by-product of all this road traffic and abuse is constant litter appearing on the roadside.

Picking up litter was a project that my father, Cecil Kilgore, carried out until  his death in April 2012.  He never walked  as far as the county line picking up trash, but he did go past the property he owned.  I never heard him complain about the people or the trash.  He just silently went about the task of keeping his property clean.  I was able to share time with him, helping him to pick up trash on the side of the road. Daddy is my inspiration to continue the ritual.

This week I choose to start at the county line and work back to Mother’s driveway.  I took Daddy’s truck and parked it at the county line.  I used the truck bed as my retaining and holding station for all the bags I accumulated that day.  The amount of trash I picked up amazed me.

Right at the county line, someone had used the location as an actual garbage dump, resulting in six bags of trash just from that one site.  Then there were four bags of trash acquired from the state land going toward the old Kilgore home place. On the roadside dividing the old home place property, I got  two bags of garbage, one which was filled with construction and flooring debris left on the side of the road in front of Granny Kilgore’s house. There was also some wood, two wooden pallets, and a five gallon bucket used for mixing grout, all of which I could not place in a garbage bag. I filled twelve garbage bags with trash during my sunny, but cold afternoon, plus all the construction items found. 

Among the items found were the usual glass soda and beer bottles, multiple plastic drink bottles, paper cups, carry-out styrofoam containers, plastic bags, cigarette boxes, snuff cans, pillows, paper plates, and candy wrappers.  All along the roadside and in the grass  ditches there were small pieces of coal which had fallen from the coal trucks. These I left untouched for obvious reasons.  The amount of liter I picked up certainly points to the fact that we are a careless and trashy people.  I just don’t understand it!  Why can’t people take their trash home with them and place it in their garbage cans?  We have garbage pickup in the most remote areas of the state, and it would make for a much more beautiful country side if there was no trash left on the side of the roads. Enough preaching!

I would like  to share about a most unusual and puzzling item I found while collecting the roadside trash.  It was a yellow and white shoe box with the name, YELLOWBOX on it.  On the side of the box were the words: Style—Kylie, Color—Black, Size—7.  When I picked the box up to place it in a garbage bag, I felt the weight of the box to be heavier than expected. It wasn't an empty shoe box, so I decided to open it.

What I thought I saw at first were two small stuffed animals.  On top was a stuffed, miniature pink monkey or gorilla.  Below it looked like a small stuffed puppy—black in color with touches of brown on the end of its mouth and legs.  The little dog was lying on its side with legs extended in a natural side pose. The animal looked  like a replica of a Miniature Pinscher puppy.  Next to the mouth of the puppy was a miniature chewable dog bone.  The fur on the beautiful little puppy was smooth and shiny.   


But on second look, I realized that it was not a stuffed toy at all.   It was the body of a real puppy..  This became obvious when I looked at the dog’s opened eye, and saw that the eyeball was sunken in with a colorless, cloudy, dark look.  I couldn’t believe someone took the time to carefully place the dog into a nice shoebox, gave it a stuff animal as a burial companion, and a bone next to its mouth,  and then discarded it on the side of the road.  What I saw made no sense to me.  It still doesn’t.  Someone showed some thought and loving interest to go to the trouble of creating such a thoughtful final scene for this little dog.  Then, the box was left on the side of the road with the rest of the trash, discarded in a very non- caring way.  I took the box and placed it in the bed of the truck.  

 After filling most of my bags, at 4:00 pm I had a cell phone call from Mother, wanting to know how I was doing, and how much longer I would be out.  She was wondering how I was making it in the cold weather.  I assured her that I was making it fine, and that I had been comfortable all day because of the multiple layers of clothes I was wearing, and because I was moving about, walking all the miles I had.  I told her I estimated I would be back home around 5:30 pm because I still had both sides of Granny Kilgore’s place to pick up.  I knew it would not take me as long there because the liter wasn’t as prevalent.  My estimation was correct, and I was back to Mother’s right at 5:30 pm.  I immediately told them about the YELLOWBOX, and what I had found in it. I asked them if they wanted to see what I described, but they declined.  

The box remained  in the back of the truck overnight. During the entire evening, my mind could not turn loose of what I had seen in the box, and the fact that i needed to do something about it. 
After waking up early on Friday morning, it finally came to my mind how I could take care of the yellow and white box.  After breakfast, I went to the tool shed and got some tools so I could dig a grave for the little puppy.  I selected a special place that i only know, that is protected by a marker, preventing any wild animals from getting to the box’s contents. 

 I’m still trying to play out all scenarios that would explain the mystery of the YELLOWBOX and its special contents. Reflecting on all this,  I’ve come to believe that the little pink primate was  a dog toy.  The puppy was not a newborn pup because its head was too defined and its coat was not that of a newborn.   If you have any thoughts about the entire situation,  please make comments in the box below. I will sign off now as the roadside trash picker-upper of Poplar Springs Road—at least for two miles of it.  

Johnny Kilgore

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

YOUTHFUL MEMORIES OF WILLIAM GRADY KILGORE by Ronald J McKeever

William Grady Kilgore
June 26, 1904 - December 17, 1991

by Ron McKeever

My memories of Uncle Grady consists of two parts, separated by four years when we moved to West Virginia.  The coal mines were hiring, so in 1942 we moved from our house located next to Grandpa and Granny Kilgore’s place to Nauvoo  to be near the mines.  It was hard for Pop to walk from Poplar Springs, work eight or ten hours in the coal mines and then walk the five miles back  home.  It was a sad day for us grand kids because we had lived seven years within one thousand feet of our grandparents, Sarah and Virge Kilgore, but  moved we did.  

It became our weekly goal to go back to the farm and spend the weekend with Grandpa and Granny.  Some cousins lived in the house we rented and other cousins would come on the weekends.  For that reason it became our goal to walk the five miles back to the Kilgore old home place to see everyone.  We older four kids (Ronald, Glenn, Patricia, and Joe McKeever) walked, while Pop, Mom, and the little ones, Carolyn and Charles, visited on Sundays, by usually borrowing a truck from Bedford Noles.  We knew that Uncle Grady worked on the railroad, and that work required him being away from home during the week. We also knew that Grady and William Prestridge would be driving home from work on Friday evenings.   Many of those times, they would pick us up and haul us to the farm for a wonderful weekend visit. 
Grady Kilgore on left
William Prestridge on right

In 195l, the coal mines closed in West Virginia which resulted in our returning to the place of our birth—  our rural Winston County,  Alabama farm. What little I knew of farming had been long forgotten.  But strangely enough,  Uncle Grady saw in two youthful boys (Glenn and I) an eagerness to learn.  By trading up, Pop had gotten us a mule and Grady already had one,  Glenn and I,   each with our mules, began helping Grady on his farm.  You may be asking why Grady’s children weren’t helping.  The reasons were that Jim and Jerry were just small children, Herbert had joined the Army, and Doris was in school in Talledega.  Glen and I each earned $3.00 per day plus a delicious meal at noontime.  

Aunt Nettie could absolutely cook the best fried chicken, and on top of that, a special dessert— a concoction called ice box pie.  This delicacy required the use of a refrigerator which Uncle Grady and Aunt Nettie had.  Aunt Nettie would mix up a batch of graham crackers with all the ice cream ingredients and freeze it in the refrigerator freezer compartment.  Two teenage boys could eat you out of house and home, so I’m sure Pop was glad to farm us out, while Grady was glad to get the labor.   Grady would work the railroad....we would plow what he told us to do....and we all enjoyed every day of it.  

Grady was always laughing....always had a pocket full of peanuts....and even in his latter years, you
never went by his house unless he gave you something.  It might be peanuts...or sweet potatoes...or             scuppernongs...whatever was available.  

After I married and left to make my fortune in Birmingham, I would often visit Grady, and help him work on his water well pump.  He was the salt of the earth. We often sat around the fireplace at night to hear him regale us of yarns, some of which might have been true.  As I have grown into old age, I can appreciate the hard work and character that the man exhibited which made this country what it was....not afraid of work and living honestly.  I had the honor of assisting in his funeral at Colbert Memorial Gardens.