Sunday, January 15, 2012

KILGORE OLD HOME PLACE MEMORIES

This past week I have actively been involved in the Kilgore Cousins Group on facebook.  Since the site was set up, we have doubled the number of relatives in the group.  But in viewing the activity, the posts and comments have been active for just a few in the group.  That certainly doesn't diminish the importance of these posts and the involvement of those participating.  My desire is that we truly see "kilgore cousins" group involvement from the 3rd and 4th generations of John Wesley Virgil Kilgore.  Those generations have no ties to the Kilgore old home place in Nauvoo, Alabama but they are our future and they have been left a great legacy.

How many people in this world can return to the house and the land where their great grandmother or great grandfather was raised?  My wife, Pat who is an Albertville, Alabama native cannot even return  to the houses where her own mother and father were raised.  We are fortunate that we can return to the actually house build in the early 1900's by our own Grandpa.  A very large and special family was raised in that house.  That is why the house, barns, and land are sacred to us all.

The Kilgore old home place evokes memories in the minds of all the first cousins.  Many of us stayed overnight with Granny when she was left a widow.  Papa Kilgore died in December 1949.  We each had our season in the role of providing nightly companionship for Granny.   But at first, one of her children and their spouse moved in with Granny so she would not be along. I do not recall the order of the children's stay because I was only five years old at the time.  At some point, the grandchildren took over fulfilling that role and it was a memorable one. But as I got older at some point Carolyn McKeever and I stayed with Granny every night.

The house had only one heated room which served as the both the seating area and the bedroom.  The room's furnishings were simple and functional.  There was a sewing machine on the corner wall,  rocking chairs around the fireplace or later on, the stove, and there were two beds. The bathroom was a "pee pot" under Granny's bed which was emptied every morning after a night's stay. The beds  had iron bedsteads and mattresses that would sink in the middle.

We all slept in the same room; Granny in one bed and Carolyn and I in the other bed.  This would be unheard in today's world. That arrangement was stopped by our parents when I reached puberty.  Never could understand that at my naive age.  Following Carolyn and me, my brother, Mike and my cousin, Jim too over.  They became the official nighttime companions for Granny.


What memories of those days!  Granny would tell us all kinds of stories as we lay in the bed.  Most I've forgotten, but some I do recall.  One centered around the death of Uncle Johnnie who was killed in motor cycle wreck coming home from Birmingham in 1939.  Granny was good at telling "ghost stories."  I regret that many memories have gotten suppressed over the years.  Let's dig into our memory banks and see if we can relive those days through the memories recalled.  I look forward to hearing from you all.www.facebook.com/groups/kilgorecousins/

Johnny Kilgore

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Our Ancestry

I was doing a google search on my grandparents to see what I could find on the web.  Surprisingly,  I did find some information from the site http://wc.rootsweb.ancestry.com  This is the fourth or fifth time, to post this information because I would either type a wrong date, a wrong name or the site would have the wrong birth date.  The following is the corrected information.

My grandpa's father was William Malcolm Kilgore, born April 10, 1852 and his mother was Cordelia Townley Kilgore, born May, 1853. Grandpa's full name was John Wesley Virgil Kilgore, better known as "Virge" to his friends.  Grandpa Kilgore was born February 28, 1880.   Granny Kilgore's parents were Thomas Louis Noles, born October 6, 1844 in Georgia and Martha Jane King, born December 31, 1852 in Walker County, Alabama.   Granny had a very long name--Sarah Louiza Martha Tabitha Noles.  To her friends she was "Sarah".  Granny and papa were married March 30, 1902 at the Noles' Home in Walker County around Nauvoo, Alabama.  Papa was 22 years old and Granny was 20 years old when they "tied the knot."  Ten children were born to John and Sarah Kilgore.  The first child was born premature and did not live.  As was customary in that day, the child was not given a name, nor listed because of being stillborn. The remaining nine children are William Grady Kilgore, born June 26, 1904; Lou Etta "Sis" Kilgore, born October 31, 1906; Dollie Edna Kilgore, born February 6, 1909; Ruby Cora Kilgore, born October 17, 1911; Johnie Thomas Kilgore, born December 12, 1913; Lois Jane Kilgore, born July 14, 1916; Ruth Mae Kilgore, born June 23, 1918; Cecil Warren Kilgore, born March 24, 1921; and Lorene Kilgore, born December 29, 1923.  Papa Kilgore died on Christmas day, 1949, and is buried in Bennett Cemetery on Lamon Chapel Road in Walker County.  Granny Kilgore died February 2, 1963 and was buried beside Papa Kilgore and her son, my Uncle Johnie, who died at the young age of 25 on the 29th of March 1939.

We have been well blessed to have such an ancestry.  Regrettably,  John Wesley and Sarah have only two children living as of this writing--my dad, Cecil Kilgore who is 90 years old and Aunt Lois who is 95.  If I counted correctly, Grandpa and Granny Kilgore had 30 grandchildren.  Those 30 make up the Kilgore Cousins. The family has grown through the years as the cousins have had children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  The Kilgore family and extended family are scattered throughout the US reflecting the mobile society we live in today.  We do not know each other as we did growing up in the 40's and 50's.  I trust this blog and the "kilgorecousins" facebook group page will  help us to reconnect.  Love to hear your comments.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New Year 2012

Today is a new beginning.  It begins 2012.  How appropriate that I  begin this blog as a new beginning to aid in the process of communicating with relatives and friends.  My cousins are scattered throughout the US.  In May we will gather in Nauvoo, Alabama for our Kilgore cousins reunion.  This gathering occurs every other year on Memorial Day weekend.   It is always during an even year--thus, 2012.  The purpose of this blog is  to reconnect in new ways.  We will not have to wait until this May to rediscover each other.   I trust we will use this as a new avenue for networking with those we only see once in a while.  I wish you all a very happy, New Year.  Since  this New Year fell on Sunday, I have to go now to get ready for church.  It is the Lord's Day and the best way to start this New Year is to be in His house.

Johnny Kilgore
Kilgore Cousins Reunion Chairman